What is the right way of teaching new thing to your 2-year old kids?

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added Jan 11, 2016 in General by LC Marshal Captain (25,790 points)
Wife has requested me to put it here for debate; Her approach is lets the kid do what they want, and negotiate with them when they're up to something. My approach is more like a 'military' style according to her. Let's the kid plays, and say no when necessary. Btw, her approach seem backed by research, and I need a new finding to prove my way wasn't wrong too. Feel free to suggest. Thanks mate